Aries and Aries Compatibility

Well now, this one's got me smiling, dear... Aries and Aries — Two fires. Warmth squared, burns squared. You'll never be cold, and you'll never be bored. Just don't burn the house down.

This is one of the pairings the old books file under easy. Hold that lightly.

The angle between you

Aries and Aries share a sign on the wheel — the conjunction, intensifying by nature.

The same lens on the world — recognition without translation, and a blind spot neither of you can see, because nobody in the room is standing anywhere else.

On the classical ease scale that is 81 out of 100 — weather, not a verdict. An easy angle asks less of you. It does not love you better.

The mirror, and what it hides

Two Aries charts put the same sign on the first house — self and body — for both of you. Instant recognition — they wear your own temperament on someone else's face. And the cost is exactly what it sounds like: nobody in the pairing supplies the missing half.

You are both quick to laugh and quicker to act, first through every door. Say that twice and you can hear the problem: what you get wrong, they get wrong the same way, at the same moment. Nobody is standing anywhere else to say the obvious thing.

The tradition has an answer, and it is not another Aries. It is Libra across the axis — charming and fair-minded, happiest when the room is getting along. See what the other half holds in Libra.

What love looks like here

Both of you love like a bonfire, warm and bright and hard to ignore. You will recognise each other without asking. That is the gift and the trap in one piece.

Mutual ignition — enthusiasm compounds, and so does impatience.

Neither way is the right way. Different weather, and weather can be dressed for.

Who starts it and who finishes it

You are both cardinal. Two starters — you both want to set the agenda, and neither of you is the one who finishes.

You run on one clock too. Mars comes back round in about 1.9 years, for both of you at once. When one of you is ready to reopen a decision, so is the other. Nobody waits.

Underneath the angle

Mars rules this sign and sits at home in it, twice over here. Nothing dilutes it and nothing argues with it, which is worth knowing about a planet the tradition calls the lesser malefic.

The friction

There is no outside voice here. Whatever you agree on gets louder, and whatever you both miss stays missed.

When Aries is at its worst, there is a second Aries agreeing. Someone still has to say the unwelcome sentence, and it has to be one of you.

How to hold it together

Ask one question a week you do not already know the answer to.

Don't rush what's still ripening, dear...

Questions people ask me about this pair

Do two Aries people work as a couple?

They form a conjunction: 81 out of 100 on the classical ease scale, the band the tradition calls easy. That measures how easily the pairing understands itself, not whether it lasts.

What is the hardest part of a Aries and Aries relationship?